American oligarchs own both Democratic and Republican party leaders. They own most of the policies, media, and enforcement programs like ICE that protect the oligarchs' powers. This is not a game of Haves versus Have Nots. This is White Wealthy Male Supremacists versus The Rest of Us.
Women must unite in a purposeful, positive, productive effort to undermine and eradicate the white wealthy Christian male supremacist movement that is seizing power from top to bottom. One public and political initiative that would unite women is a Public Education K-16 Initiative. Priotize public education and healthcare to win women's votes and secure their Resistance to fascism.
The most gratifying moments in relationships are those that support trust, protect voice and expression, and nurture Understanding.